No matter who you are or where you are in the world you will always be in a relationship.
Good, bad or indifferent, you are still in a relationship.
If you are unemployed, have no family, no husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend you will still have a relationship.
 The type of relationship you will have outside of these other relationships is just as important to your life. it's a relationship with
- Yourself
- and a spiritual one
From the time we are born we are in a relationship, initially with our mother. No matter who you are, or where you were born, you have to have a mother. This first relationship we all have can set out our life path, good or not so good. We cannot however blame our mother if our life does not turn out the way we wanted it to.
Here is an example:
Your mother raises you in a perfect way, that you are happy with. Yet another child is raised in the most apalling manner. Who has the greater opportunity to become happy in their life? Child A - with the perfect upbringing, or child B, with the not so perfect upbringing.
Answer:
Child A has it all, but might not appreciate what they have and not enhance it still further. They might become spoiled and have no drive for life.
Child B however could be very spirited and full of life, overcoming all adversity, just to show they can be a success. | Your start in life, good or bad is only a starting point, in terms of time for your adult life.
Child A has a few years head start over child B. With determination and the right type of action, both child A & B can equalise their lives in adulthood.
The relationship with yourself is the most rewarding or damaging relationship you can possibly have. No one else in the free world can hinder your life more than you can. You are the one who makes all the decisions concerning your own life.
Any other relationship you have with another person can be changed or under extreme measures, you can walk away. How do you, walk away from yourself?
Relationship with yourself
How many times have you had a bright idea at night before going to bed, only to wake up next morning and talk yourself out of it?
Your bright idea was your subconscious part of you thinking like a child. Original thought
- no consequence thought
- exciting thought
These thoughts are the ones that will guide you towards a happy fulfilling life. Your next morning thoughts are the thoughts that are said to be logical and sensible and are designed to keep you safe.
These logical thoughts have been absorbed by your brain over a period of time and are a reflection of your own observations, the comments made by others and include newspapers, relatives, friends etc. You are where you are
in life today because of the decisions you made yesterday. | Spiritual relationship
Whether you are a religious person or not you will still have a spiritual being inside of you.
If you think you have no spiritual connections then you are mistaken. All life forms have a spiritual connection. The reason a human being thinks they have no spritual relationship, or connection to the universe is that it has been suppressed out of them over a period of time.
Look at a child, they are happy, running around, inquisitive, getting into trouble (adult definition). It is their spirit that gives them this energetic life. A child can go to bed late and still wake up early, full of life and ready to deal with the new day.
An adult can be lethargic, uninterested in the world and generally finds dificulty getting out of bed. In this state an adult is suppressing the spirit of adventure that lies within. It is always there, it's just that over the years, this spirit has been neglected.
Our human brains are so powerful that the spirit within us all can easily be forgotten.
How do you improve your relationships?
First starting point would be to take an honest look at yourself.
- Who are you
- Why are you here
- Where are you going
The relationship you have with yourself should be the starting point if you want to change the relationship you have with others. Let me know your problem and see if I can help. In the meantime take a look at some books I have researched for you that will help.
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